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First time caught

Postby davedaiton » Mon Mar 28, 2016 3:25 am

Getting caught smoking for the first time by your parents can be a pretty traumatic experience. Describe the circumstances of your first time. How old were you? How long had you been smoking? How much did you smoke? How did you get caught? What was your parents reaction? Did you promise to quit? Did you quit for a while?
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Re: First time caught

Postby northcoastsf » Mon Mar 28, 2016 6:48 am

I remember my 1st time getting caught very well.
It was on a Saturday, when I was 16.

Normally, I had the house to myself on Saturdays and I
had developed a routine that I did every Saturday. I
Would lay in bed and chain smoke, then I'd jerk off,
Then chain smoke again, then jerk off...you get the
Picture.

That routine originally started because I wanted to make
Sure I was so addicted that I could never quit, even if
Someday I wanted to. This had been going on for over
A year at that point.

My mom showed up unexpectedly and caught me laying
In bed with a cigarette in my mouth and pretty full
Ashtray next to me.

At least she didn't catch me jerking off!

She cried and begged me to quit before it was too late.
Of course, I'd lied and said I had only started the month
Before.

I played along, like I was going quitting, which I had
No intention of doing, for awhile.

She sort of caught me again 2 months later, she found
A pack of Reds in my school bag.

At that point, I just came clean. I told her that I had
Not just started 3 months ago, that I've really been smoking
For well over a year. I admitted that I smoked a pack a day
During the week and closer to 2 ppd on Saturdays.

She cried again, but still had hope that I wanted to quit and
She started talking about different ways to quit. Since I
Had already gone the honest route, I figure I might as well,
Keep going to put an end to it.

So, I told her that I loved everything about smoking and that
I had no desire or intention to quit or cut back in anyway.

Tense couple of days after that, but she eventually accepted
The fact that I was a committed and seriously addicted
Smoker and that I did not plan on stopping.

Actually, now that I'm thinking of it, it was not long after
That day that my consumption rose a steady 2 ppd.
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Re: First time caught

Postby tatryan » Mon Mar 28, 2016 7:40 am

I had only been smoking about 2 months when I was caught. I had just bought myself a fresh pack of Camel Blues at Walmart and was too busy lighting up to see my dad walk towards me. He surprised the living daylights out off me when he said, what the fuck are you doing Ryan, since when do you smoke? I knew that if I was honest and told him I had only started two months ago he would make me quit so I said I had started smoking about a year ago.
As I was 18 already there was nothing he could do about it but he was pretty pissed at me. Dad is a 2 ppd smoker and mom about a pack a day smoker and still they were disappointed in me. When I got caught I smoked about 10-15 cigarettes a day and after only smoking for two months can't have been really addicted yet but when they suggested I should try quitting something snapped. I purposely started to smoke more so that I would be addicted and quitting was no option anymore. I was a pack a day guy in no time and there were days I easily matched my dad. Although my parents were not happy I smoked they were ok with me smoking at home, as smokers themselves they realized I would smoke with or without there blessing.
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Re: First time caught

Postby joshpayne » Mon Mar 28, 2016 8:18 am

I had already been smoking about a year and half and had just gotten over a bad cold, sore throat, chest cold and it was my day back in 7th grade after being sick… doctor visit, medicine, cough medicine…the works.

As soon as school was over that day… grabbed one of my reds, stuck it in my mouth and lit it and inhaled deeply after not being able to smoke for a few days at home…it was sooo good…it was pouring rain and had no umbrella.

Walk down the school steps and over to the corner with the lit red in my mouth exhaling clouds of overdue smoke when I heard a car honk and looked straight ahead and froze when I saw my mom who came to pick me up because of just getting over this bad cold.. I literally spit my lit red out of my mouth as smoke continued to pour outta my mouth and nose.

"You were smoking"…and of course I denied it..although I knew she saw me… "get in" she yelled…and started to preach about her being concerned that I would get sick again with the weather not to mention that was the first time she ever saw me smoking… and of course told my Dad that evening and got punished for a week along with speeches about the evils of smoking and how bad it was for you.

Was more careful after that…lol, lol
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Re: First time caught

Postby Marbs4ever » Mon Mar 28, 2016 9:16 pm

northcoastsf wrote:I remember my 1st time getting caught very well.
It was on a Saturday, when I was 16.

Normally, I had the house to myself on Saturdays and I
had developed a routine that I did every Saturday. I
Would lay in bed and chain smoke, then I'd jerk off,
Then chain smoke again, then jerk off...you get the
Picture.

That routine originally started because I wanted to make
Sure I was so addicted that I could never quit, even if
Someday I wanted to. This had been going on for over
A year at that point.

My mom showed up unexpectedly and caught me laying
In bed with a cigarette in my mouth and pretty full
Ashtray next to me.

At least she didn't catch me jerking off!

She cried and begged me to quit before it was too late.
Of course, I'd lied and said I had only started the month
Before.

I played along, like I was going quitting, which I had
No intention of doing, for awhile.

She sort of caught me again 2 months later, she found
A pack of Reds in my school bag.

At that point, I just came clean. I told her that I had
Not just started 3 months ago, that I've really been smoking
For well over a year. I admitted that I smoked a pack a day
During the week and closer to 2 ppd on Saturdays.

She cried again, but still had hope that I wanted to quit and
She started talking about different ways to quit. Since I
Had already gone the honest route, I figure I might as well,
Keep going to put an end to it.

So, I told her that I loved everything about smoking and that
I had no desire or intention to quit or cut back in anyway.

Tense couple of days after that, but she eventually accepted
The fact that I was a committed and seriously addicted
Smoker and that I did not plan on stopping.

Actually, now that I'm thinking of it, it was not long after
That day that my consumption rose a steady 2 ppd.


Reminds me a lot a a couple of my experiences. I bought my first pack of Reds and tried my first cig just as I was turning 12. Even before figuring out how to inhale, smoking was 1 of my 2 favorite activities. Of course jerking off was the other, which I'd been doing regularly for about 6 months. Of course puffing my way through that first cig got me hard. So, I lit another and puffed through it while shooting my first load as a Marb man. From then on, I smoked and stroked whenever I could. At first my smoking and stroking was confined to the basement, usually when mom wasn't home. She smoked anyway and never seemed to notice. Eventually I started doing it when she was home if I thought it was safe, like after she went to bed.

By around 8th grade I was of course inhaling and smoking and stroking every day. I was also occasionally smoking elsewhere in the house when mom wasn't home. One night she went out but her plans changed and she came home much earlier than expected. I was of course in my room, naked and several cigs into what I'd hoped would be a long, uninterrupted smoke and stroke session. I heard her come in and realized I had only moments to decide what I wanted to get caught doing. I managed to butt out, hide my cigs, lighter and the ashtray as well as the porn mag I was jacking too. But there was no time to get dressed. I honestly can't imagine she didn't smell the smoke from the 2 or 3 cigs I'd already had. But in the end, she only caught me naked. I'm sure she knew I'd been jacking but I guess he knew all 14 year guys did that. So, I quickly got dressed and nothing more was said about it.

Of course that close call did little to diminish my daily smoking and stroking. Having several other smoking friend by then, my smoking was increasing. Soon I was smoking in the basement often when mom was home & awake and regularly in my room when she was asleep. I kept a coffee can in my room that I used as an ashtray. Several months after the close call, mom found the coffee can which of course, had a load of butts in it. She asked what I was doing with it. Although I thought it was pretty obvious lol. I told her I'd brought it up from the basement not realizing there were butts in it. I can't imagine she believed that but again, little more was said. I soon went back to business as usual but would regularly get rid of any butts in my room.

When I was a freshman in high school I would occasionally babysit on the weekends for the woman who lived upstairs from us. She was a cool single mom who smoked and she'd always leave a couple beers in the fridge for me. Her kid would always be asleep before she went out for the evening. By the time she got home the first night I'd fallen asleep on her sofa. My pack and lighter were on the table and a few of my butts were in her ashtray. She said nothing about my smoking. I thought it was great. I was getting paid to watch TV, drink a couple beers and smoke.

Well, as great as it was, after doing it a few times it was a little boring. So, 2 of my friends came over to keep me company. Knowing that it was ok to both smoke and drink, we all did so liberally until there as no more beer in the fridge. It was getting a bit late and one of my friend's parents were looking for him. So, they called my house and my mother came up to get him. She let herself in and walked into the living room to find all 3 of us smoking with our packs and a pretty full ashtray sitting on the table. Fortunately, all my mother said is that my friends mom was on the phone. He went downstairs to talk to her and the other guy helped me clean up a little.

Mom didn't come back up and both my friends left shortly after. No complaints form my upstairs neighbor when she got home, even though we'd drank all her beer and smoked up her apartment pretty good. The next day mom just asked if my friends parents knew they smoked. I just told her I think they have it the same as it is here...don't ask, don't tell.
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Re: First time caught

Postby RedsXhaler » Mon Apr 04, 2016 2:31 pm

I smoked for nearly 18 months before I was "caught" except that though I was caught, my parents didn't say anything to me and it was me who came out as a smoker. This was over 40 years ago, and for those on here that are younger, you have to understand we lived in a different world, and though it wasn't exactly the norm for an 11 or 12 year old to smoke, it also wasn't the issue it is today.

As to being caught, my father knew probably 6 months before I came out about it, because, as I said in the other post about how I bought my first pack, he'd been sending me down to the corner store to buy him cigarettes since I was 10, and "paying" me for the service by letting me use the change to buy candy. Which I did for about 6 months. And then I used the change to buy cigarettes for myself. I later learned that one day my father had stopped into the store about an hour after I'd been there, and the owner, who'd known our family for years, said something to him like you know your son was just in here buying you a pack? Except that the pack I'd bought that day was mine, obviously from what I'm writing, my Dad hadn't asked me to get him any cigarettes. So, he knew. But he didn't say anything.

Life went on as normal, here's a buck son, go get me a pack of cigarettes, buy yourself some candy, and I would forego the candy and buy what I really needed, my Marlboros. And then, I was taken on a trip by my Dad, alone, just the two of us, long car trip that didn't allow me any alone time. I'd been smoking about 18 months, and you can imagine how I felt as he lit up one after another and I was craving one. We checked into the motel and I figured maybe he'd go down to the bar or something, give me some alone time to light up, but he didn't. So, that night, finally, I asked him if I could smoke a cigarette. I was so needing one that I didn't care what happened as long as at the end of it I had a Marlboro lit and in my mouth. His answer threw me for a loop. It was, go ahead, didn't you bring your own?

And that was the day that I fully became a smoker.
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Re: First time caught

Postby raucher » Tue May 03, 2016 8:28 am

I was not really caught smoking by my parents but after hiding it for three years and by now smoking a pack a day I was very unhappy not smoking when I was home so had to tell them. My mother was very disappointed that I was smoking. My father was very angry with me and told I was not permitted to be smoking. I told him that like him and my mother, I now also needed to be smoking and I was not asking for permission but I was only telling them I was smoker now.
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Re: First time caught

Postby robrookt » Mon Oct 03, 2016 1:39 am

The day I got my ears pierced is the day my parents found out I smoked. I had only been smoking a couple of months but my father making fun of me and saying what will be next smoking Rob made me say that I could do with a cigarette right now.
My father was in shock, his anti little boy a smoker but when he saw me light up he knew I truly was. He wasn't mad but warned me that somewhere down the line I would regret becoming a smoker and it would be too late as quitting is very hard once you are addicted.
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Re: First time caught

Postby Jackson » Sat Dec 03, 2016 1:54 pm

The first time I got caught smoking it was not by one of my parents but by a friend of my father's. He wasn't shocked and seemed to find it pretty normal and even helped me start inhaling. Of course I was scared he would tell my father right away, but it took a couple of weeks before my father confronted me with it. He wasn't mad at me for smoking but had some issues with my age as I was only 13 at the time. Luckily he realized that since I had already started it would be useless to tell me I wasn't allowed to smoke anymore and gave me permission to smoke at home.
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